About me

Hi! I’m Shelly.

I want to fix things, but I can’t.

So, I have created this space to connect with others who have a loved one challenged with mental health and addiction. It really is regardless of the substance, whether it be alcohol, opioids, prescription medication, over-the-counter medication, street drugs, pills, needles; heck, it could be gambling, porn, cigarettes, gaming, social media and technology. It really doesn’t matter. These addictions not only drain the life out of someone we love, but derail those of us who are witnessing them break apart.

I have been lost, sad, frustrated, angry. I have also had moments of clarity, perspective, growth, and understanding. I hope to continue to transform and perhaps provide some form of support or at least connection to anyone who …may not even know what they need or want.

At first, I was going to identify myself as a mom, but the thing is, I am on my own path of self discovery. I want to speak as the person who happens to be a mom, and how my own self and this role influence how I navigate any number of situations.

I am a nurse (and nurse educator). I have decided that I do not want to assume a position of authority in the health care field. However, I am doing some active work and research, and have had to do so, as many others in similar circumstances. I do aim to put some of this knowledge to good use, and share what I discover that may prove helpful for others who may not know where to look or what to do.

I am also a writer. I have chosen to express my experiences and what I learn from the standpoint of who I am in the form of a blog so that I can utilize my growing skills. I have my own goals. Normally I don’t like my worlds colliding, but In order to achieve those goals, I have resolved that writing about my experiences will enhance an opportunity to publish words that may mean something to someone.

I am here just to share my understandings, my misunderstandings, my steps forward, my faux-pas, and perhaps some helpful take-aways.

Here goes…